This article explores the pressure of performing to win and the importance of remembering one's joy of playing. It reflects on how the drive to win can bring negative consequences and how it can be helpful to take a step back and remember why one enjoys playing the sport. The author discusses how when the motivation to win is balanced with an appreciation of the game, it can lead to a more positive playing experience. He concludes by reminding readers that losing a game does not make one a loser.