This article provides tips to help non-ultimate players live with an ultimate player. It suggests that the non-ultimate player should take the time to learn about the game, show support for their partner, and find an activity that they can both enjoy together. It also suggests activities like watching matches together or attending tournaments as a way to stay engaged and connected to the ultimate community. Finally, the article encourages readers not to forget the importance of having balance in the relationship and to make sure to spend quality time on non-ultimate activities as well.